"Abẹ́lẹ́ja Yán-án"DATING IS EQUIVALENT TO ABẸ́LẸ́JA YÁN Dating : From the Cambridge Advance Learner’s Dictionary means to regularly spend time with someone you have a romantic relationship with an intention of trying to get married, often planned before it happened. This concept is good and not too far from FRIENDSHIP MINDSET OF CHRISTIAN COURTSHIP. Six features of dating include:1. Focus or emphasis isn’t on marriage (though it targets it), rather on trying to check-out if the partners will eventually make it.
2. It tends to put God out of the process of settling down in a christian marriage properly.3. Preparing for the future home is apparently NOT done since the main idea is to check-out the person, and if he/she is unsatisfactory, the relationship can be ended.4. Hence, break-up is about 90% sure.5. Emotional damage or hurt is a high possibility.6. More people who specialise (or enter marriage through) in dating do not think too deeply before settling for divorce later in their marriage during the adjustment years because they are already used to “pack it up when it is not okay anymore” mentality.PSALM 15 **ABẸ́LẸ́JA YÁN Version**1. Lord who may abide in a correct and happy home? Who may dwell in a family where God is the One dictating?2. He who walks into marriage rightly (as a believer) And does what is right in his relationship And is regularly sincere (and remain ever sincere) to the partner even beyond wedding day3. He who does not deceive the partner for selfish reason Nor plans in any way to cheat and then run Nor does he capitalize on the partner’s weaknesses to break up (God-given relationship)4. In whose eyes other unfaithful (ungodly) people are unworthy to befriend But he honours and fears The Lord He even endures the partner to maltreat him and yet remain committed to the relationship5. He who does not just give out his gift to buy the partner’s emotional life Neither does he take from whom he does not have any relational interest He whose life fits this picture will never be Abẹ́lẹ́ja yán By @akintunde_gold
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