Reasons Why Broken Relationship Is Better Than Broken Marriage

I believe that we must all aspire and do our possible best to marry as early as possible.
I also believe that every relationship, no matter the state can be brought into a state of awesome glory and splendor if both partners are willing to work hard to make situations better and enjoyable for the benefit of both partners.

I don't think that moving from one relationship to another is a perfect solution to the challenges we face in relationships. But, rather, the solution is in we building ourselves through knowledge and taking the corresponding practical actions necessary to make things better and enjoyable.

But, on the other hand, some peculiar relationship challenges are as a result of being paired with the wrong person; wrong not in the sense that the person is not God's choice, but, wrong in the sense that the person is almost unwilling to learn from the word and other good books to make mimself/herself better and he/she is also unwilling to work hard to make things work.
Anyone who is self-centered and is not willing to change his/her ways is bad news and cannot be married, because such one cannot make marriage work.

Anyone who does not act as a concern party of a relationship by bringing up issues that affect the relationship positively or negatively for discussion, is not a marriage material. He/she cannot make marriage work.
Anyone who does not readily talk about how he/she feels about something his/her partner did right or wrong as quickly as possible but keeps things to himself/herself is not a marriage material.

This is my point, MOVING FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CANNOT SOLVE OUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS UNTIL WE WORK ON OURSELVES BY ACQUIRING THE RIGHT KIND OF KNOWLEDGE THROUGH READING OF GREAT BOOKS ON HOW TO MARRIAGE WORK, FELLOWSHIPPING WITH THE SPIRIT OF GOD WHICH STIRS WISDOM IN US AND DISCIPLINING OURSELVES TO TAKE THE RIGHT ACTIONS. NO COUPLE CAN BE COMPATIBLE, UNLESS THE CHOOSE TO BE THROUGH SELFLESSNESS AND SACRIFICES.
BUT, ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOU FIND OUT THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH IS SELF-CENTERED(DOESN'T HAVE THE INTEREST OF THE OTHER PARTNER AT HEART), UNFORGIVING, SELF-SEEKING, NOT A TEAM-PLAYER AND DOESN'T SEEM TO MAKE THE NECESSARY EFFORT TO MAKE THINGS WORK AFTER SEVERAL DISCUSSIONS, COUNSEL, DIALOGUES, PERSUASIONS AND EVEN COHESION, THEN, IT IS BETTER YOU BREAK THAT RELATIONSHIP AND MOVE ON WITH A PERSON WHO IS A TEAM-PLAYER AND WILLING TO WORK SELFLESSLY TO MAKE THINGS.